In His Face

Have you ever seen man look at a child with love? Not just see the child, but really see him or her. Even the biggest, toughest man's face can change completely. All the roughness is replaced by this softness that words could never capture. It's truly priceless. It's one of those moments that I wish I could capture and carry with me forever. It's a moment when his true self surfaces, if only for a short instance, it is there. It cannot be disguised by swag or machismo. It's so pure, so beautiful and real.

I've seen this happen a few times in my life, every time I've been caught off guard. For me it's been a changing point in how I've view some men that have been present in my life journey.
Most recently it was the moment when I knew I was in love. To have a man look at my child that way is rare, and it's even more rare when it is the man you are in a relationship with. I will never forget how he looked at my daughter with softness and a subtle smile. 

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